Originally Posted By: snodderly
As I mentioned earlier, space, time, unconditional love and compassion are what you can give her right now. Be a friend and when she feels "safe" to talk to you, she will.


Thank you, this is exactly the course I've been on. No game playing or constant 180's in some misguided effort to turn the tide. I'm being the best me I can be and staying consistant.

We get along good, and still do things together. I see no reason to rock the boat. I can actually see the depression lifting more and more, but who knows how long this will last. Of course she still is convinced that she isn't in love with me, but that's not to worry about for now.

I've never held her back from doing what she wants, and won't start now. My only concern is that she may find someone else in her travels. I pretty sure that would be a deal breaker if she refused to give him up.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl