AnotherStander, I think you are on to something here with imaginary IE. The W has been reading these love novels like "Fifty shades of grey" and other books that are very sexually graphic. Which is definetly not her normal reading material. Again new and strange behavior.What bothers me about these books is not the content but how can someone shutdown all of these sexual feelings with there spouse but enjoy reading these books. For me to read these books would arouse me towards the W. I guess this is where men are much different than women in the mental side of sex.
The quick change in behavior is the hardest thing for me to wrap my mind. Which the more I deal with this Sitch the more I realize I need to stop thinking of the past and look forward to the future goal. Not easy by no means but I cannot explain the change in behavior. Yes I also heard that she has had these thoughts and feelings for years. Sure is news to me. Either I am a terrible at listening or mind reading. Poor communication if you ask me..
