I don't have many ideas on how to bust this open.
I'm going to pull cell records soon. I'm building up the courage as I'm guessing I won't like what I see. I also know I'll have some homework to do in determining who owns each of the numbers she communicates with.

I'm strongly debating a private investigator.

Her stepdad just called me. He said that he and her mom are there to help if I need them for anything.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done