Well now that the pregnant and out of state options are in your head, you can't claim surprise anymore right?!
Trust me, I KNOW how insane the mind races in anticipation of these things.
I find it very helpful to remember that no matter what she says, nothing is permanent. My W started OFF the conversation by asking for a D, stating that she was SURE I'd totally agree with her and want one too... When she left 6 hours later, she was sure that she was wrong about that... and maybe some other things too.
Sure, the odds are the conversation is going to be less-than-stellar from her end. But the good news is YOU hold the power here. By your responses, actions and lack thereof during this conversation, you can flip the tables back in your favor... And I'm sure you can.
So what are your thoughts about the timing of this convo? Do you think it happens today, Friday or at some other point? Any word from W today?
