Studies in Feral Cats, part 4

[reachingHigher]

T, I LOVED your post on the other thread about the living without regrets. You posted similar to me before.

I was JUST yesterday thinking about the society that produces MLC. I also thought how easy we have it, not having to work so hard for our daily bread, as it were. Lots of free time and leisure doesn't necessarily feed the soul.

My H really started mutually embracing more modern media/electronic social networking at the same time as slipping into MLC. Which came first (chicken or egg?). I can't see that more rap, parties, alcohol, etc. could possibly help him.

He does seem in a stage of connection/interest in me and family that seems normal while engaging in it. But then back to his other life.

You gave me good food for thought for today. We have to have our own journey of accepting who we are in our growth alongside accepting who our spouse is and their growth.

Thanks you as always for sharing your insights.