Oh, I forgot to add a couple more comments to my last post. One is that it came up in conversation that W thinks she may be having hot flashes. She was told over a year ago that she would probably start menopause within a year. I've wondered if her unusual behavior might be partially due to the onset of menopause. Seems that it indeed may be underway.
The other is that I don't think W remembers that her bank account is with the same bank as my credit card, and that whenever she's overdrawn I get an email about it even though it's not a joint account. I've been getting emails practically every week since she left that she's overdrawn. W has always been terrible with finances. For those that have followed my whole story you probably remember that I did a spreadsheet for her showing her how tight her finances were going to be (mine too), but it had no impact on her. Now she's living that reality.
