not offended at all. Questions pose no issues for me. What "stung" for me in other exchanges was being told "how" I feel, on what I was basing my choices, and finally whether or not I had the "right" to be upset by what was written. (Seriously, what happened to all that "validation" stuff? Is that only meant for the MLC/WAS?) If you really want to read deeper meaning into my reaction I suspect the offensive post(s) was more the straw that broke the camel's back because I've had quite enough of being subordinate. Which of course answers one of your questions regarding being a doormat for the rest of my life.
I thank you for taking time out of your life to connect with me. I don't have time just now to thoroughly answer your questions but should later today.
And thanks, I'm having an okay day. Beautiful weather - fall is my favorite season.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
