I have this feeling that reaching out in some way to H is a good idea. BUT, It has to be brief, a one time deal and my words need to be carefully chosen.
I spent about 8 months texting constantly all my feelings (rage, fear, despair, hurt, etc...)
Seems like what's worked in the past is a simple, brief forgiving and supportive message. Then, leave it.
My motive is to plant a seed that I'm not enraged and not going to chop his nuts off when/if he reaches out to me. I'm thinking that he may be having some moments of regret and I want to simply work to make myself a safe person again.
Thoughts?
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
