I think she needed that hug. She's under huge internal turmoil. When is she seeing the IC? I don't really have a ton of faith on those, but maybe it'll help. It all depends on the quality of the IC.

DB is the best book anyway. You'll enjoy it, and will renew your hope. I hung on Michelle's words for a long, long time. They kept me going. Then I found this board, and the coach, which I wish I had found sooner. Great resources.