I found an old e-mail from her from 4 months after d-day. I blew it. She seemed to hand me an instruction manual, even though it was still riddled with denial and covering up the affairs, but she pointed out what she needed to heal. At that time, all i could hear were the lies.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012