Here is the way I see it. You have to decide what is best for you and your children when it is your time with them. What my wife and I do is always give the option to each other to take the kids if one of us wants to make plans. Otherwise it is whomevers time with the kids to find the appropriate child-care. So what if she is pissed that you want to go out of town. It isn't about her anymore. Personally I am trying to have the most fun I can. Part of that is so she will start to think that being part of my life is better than being alone. If she wants to great, if not, at least I am enjoying life.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
