I think that you are still trying to talk your way out of this.
I think that you are still way too focused on that one thing, or that one phrase that will make her "snap out of it".
I think that you are still doing things JUST so that she sees you doing them, in hopes that she will suddenly look at you and realize that she F-ed up.
I think that you are trying to control the entire situation, by reading her messages(?) and trying to employ your tactics from that.
I think that you are still trying to define yourself, through her...
Twisted.....
Why do you think, that what she posted yesterday, about being a Dad, bothered you so much ???
Why did the message that you read, bother you so much ???
Look, she said that the marriage is over, and until she changes her mind....that will always be her decision....
I'm not saying that you can't influence her decision...
That is the concept of what DBing is...
You have to start living for you, and for the kids....
You have to start making the best decisions for you and them, without looking towards her for her approval.
Start by changing your focus...
Doing things for you...
Doing things with just you and your kids....
If her posts and status updates hurt you ???
Then stop reading them...
Stop being so available to HER...not the kids....her
Stop asking for permission to live...
What's the worst thing that can happen...???
She is gonna tell you that she doesn't love you and want to separate ???
I'm a little confused on what your custody arrangement is...
