Each time I hear the MC keep telling us that we are such a tough case because she says we have "All the right tools and foundations to make it the long haul". Yet she is constantly puzzled because she cannot seem to figure out why W has no desire or passion for me.
W talks highly of me, thinks I am attractive etc...
Sounds exactly like our MC sessions. W said she loves me, respects me, finds me attractive, enjoys the sex and thinks I'm a great father. MC said that was the foundation for a great relationship! W said she knows that, but she doesn't "want to try". The MC was totally perplexed. She kept probing trying to figure out why W didn't want to try, but the only responses she could get were "I don't know." This went on for 5 or 6 sessions and MC finally told W that she felt separation was the next step. W jumped all over that like she had been waiting all along for someone else to say it. W immediately started making her departure plans and said she didn't want to go to MC anymore.
I think a lot of WAS's just make up their minds and there is absolutely nothing anyone can say to them to change anything. In my W's case I'm convinced nothing would have changed as long as she was at home. Will S change things? Only time will tell.
