It's probably going to me some time to figure out if I truly want to be in this M anymore. I have have no doubt in my mind what I would like out of a marriage but I'm not convinced it will ever be with my W. I just don't believe she is capable of it.
I understand the need to take some time..just remember that she too deserves the right to know where she stands.
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One thing I've learned is I'm changing for ME and nobody else.
IMHO, this ^^^ is the most important thing you can do.
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I keep thinking that my W will never be the W that I wish she could be and I'm not talking about sex every night.
She may be thinking the same thing...except YOU are changing..so it is possible. Then again, I think the true test of love is to love someone the way they are - not the way WE expect them to be.
Good luck buddy....keep working on you.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
