Agreed. Mine did not want to vacate the home, which I decided to rent. She dragged it out for a few months all the while I was left paying HER and the mtge. Chances are your Attny will tell you that you need to evict her. I understand how difficult that would be with your D still in the house. I suggest that you send your XW and email confirming that she is leave on said date. If that is not the case, then you will begin to charge her RENT in the amount of X dollars. Harsh - yes but also what other options do you have?
And if you need a reason as to why and efforce the agreements that she leave....here ya go..
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I don't know but it's making me ill.
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I can transfer but will take a pay cut and money will be really tight
Personally, I would not wait. IF you can transfer now and secure employment albeit it at a lower pay, it may make sense to do so. Remember the lower pay is only NOW...you will end up making more money in the future.
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But I will make it.
Yes you will...yes you will!
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
