I read something interesting in one of the Hendricks' books the other day... that many times, people can be more committed to their old and destructive patterns (doing what they know doesn't work!) than they are to having the M they want or to being loved and loving others... no matter how much they say they want it, their unconscious committment is really to preventing themselves from having it (not committing to do what does work). Found that really familiar. Their whole discussion on committment was really very insightful, I thought. Has anyone read their books?
