I don't see a problem with MIR's decision to choose the best time to confront his wife about the adultery. it's not as if he is postponing it indefinitely - he wants to use the next 2 weeks to show his wife how great life can be with him; and then he can confront her about OM and tell her his boundaries
And how do you think his wife is going to react to his being nicey nicey for two weeks when his wife finds out he KNEW she was cheating?
She's going to see the whole two weeks as a SHAM.
Hypocritical I know, but his wife will take OFFENSE that he's been lying to HER about what HE knows.
Women don't like being PLAYED. And that is very well how this may appear to her when he drops the bomb.
When my husband confronted me I was less than apologetic. And finding out he knew for weeks and said NOTHING to me I took a LOT of offense to...
I know it's hypocritical guys, but you have to think like this woman thinks... His wife may just erase the ENTIRE two weeks when she finds out he knew she was cheating.
Don't put that past her. And if she does do that, the entire two weeks was just time for the affair to do more damage.
