I would say the session went well. I would seem to be on the right track as far as showing W that I am capable of changing. I do need to work on how I ask her to do things without putting any pressure, or making her feel guilty. So when I tell her that they want us to stay overnight at Retrouvaille, I should just say, W they want us to stay overnight, let me know if it changes your mind about going? It is good for me too. It will help to not have any expectations of her. In turn I think it will be a nice step in detachment.
I have completely accepted that this journey will take time and for me it may even take a divorce. My choices that I have made in my life have lead me to this path, and my choices I make on this path will lead me to a better life. And that I am 100% positive of, and I have 100% control of.
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