This is what I hate:

She texts me, "How is tomorrow morning gonna work with the car?"

Me: "You're putting me in a tough spot. I helped as a friend today b/c of your class. Yes, I want to work on things but you're still unsure. The same way you have to think about your and the kids well-being I have to think too."

Me: "Ugh, I'm just confused."

Me: "A ride so the kids don't have to walk in the cold is ok."


“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln