These were legitimate changes that I made on my own volition and not from any "nagging" from her. I was sitting around feeling miserable and wondering what would really make me feel happy. When I realized that whenever I made my wife happy I felt really happy and warm towards her so I started changing my attitude and behavior in our marriage. It worked really well......for me. I had a love for her so strong that I hadnt felt that way since we had gotten married, but her feelings for me never returned even after she acknowledged the huge change in me.
We have 2 children both grown, one away in college and the other still at home for a few more months. The only communication we have for the most part is when I have mail for her.
