Wendylon's advice rings true to me, Tumbling. If your H doesn't ask about the house work, don't share the pics. And I doubt he remembers the 2-year anniversary...I think it's us, the LBS's who remember those dates. It doesn't mean much that he doesn't remember. He probably was thinking it before then.
You are doing great, and if you ever feel the urgent need to text him or just want to vent, you have this board :-)
