Hi Tumbling,

Just lost my reply to you! It's the day for electronic glitches. By the way, do you really not know how you texted him a blank text? Were you checking to see if he'd texted you?

Are you sure your H is still interested in work to the house? If he is, let him initiate. If he may not be, leave it and don't talk about it. Either way, I'd let him put in the work to get info.

By the way, I hope you've downloaded the music yourself now. That was great not prompting him.

Good luck with leaning back. I imagine it will be hard for you not to try to get him talking instead of texting but resist.

I'm looking forward to more signs of you going dim and then hopefully seeing him stepping up to the plate a bit. I guess you could continue the way you've been going but it looks as if the dynamic needs a bit of a jolt for something else to happen. When tempted to initiate, post here instead!

I hope you don't mind my directive advice. I trust you'll ignore whatever doesn't seem right for you.

Good night, Tumbling.


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012