W says “So Rough, how are you feeling about us? What do you want to do?”
If she asks you that? I think that you need to answer immediately and unequivocally. You love your W, right? You want to be married to her, right? You're willing to work fixing the marriage aren't you? You've worked towards that up to this point, right?
Why would you want to hide the ball with any of that??
:)^^^:)
The good news here: You don't even have to rehearse a WORD of what that response would be. That's everything you're working for, the reason you're on this board, and the reason I'm glad to have you in my foxhole!