W says “So Rough, how are you feeling about us? What do you want to do?”
If she asks you that? I think that you need to answer immediately and unequivocally. You love your W, right? You want to be married to her, right? You're willing to work fixing the marriage aren't you? You've worked towards that up to this point, right?
Why would you want to hide the ball with any of that??
Ok, you bring up a good point. I just figured that sometimes it might be good to refrain from showing my cards. I understand the honesty thing but certain topics I have a hard time being honest with. For example, acting “as if.” I am fine putting on that front around W but that’s not really how I am feeling. I think I understand your point. For some topics it’s ok to show my cards and others it’s not.
Obviously I don't want to go off on a tangent but if she asks, I need to stand for what I believe in! Saying things with true conviction, decisive and concise, this is how I feel about XYZ!!!!
