About 2 and a half weeks ago I came to the realization that nothing I was doing was working so I stopped almost all communication which is extremely hard because we work at the company and see each other for a couple of hours each day. After all of this time away from her and no communication, I have felt my love for her slowly melt away to almost nothing and for the most part am only still in the game because I still respect the vows I took and the institution of marriage. I am trying to GAL and actually I am enjoying my new found freedom. I tend to alternate between thoughts of "maybe this thing can still work itself out" and telling her to "just file the papers and get this thing over with".
So now after 5 months of a living hell, I am just wondering how to proceed or if I should proceed.
Met, I would continue with what you're doing now -- GO DARK. Do you have any children?
These "changes" that you made -- were these legitimate, SELF-improvement things that YOU wanted to improve upon . . . for YOU . . . or were they merely tactics designed to please your wife?
Supplication rarely attracts a woman to a man. Strong, leading behavior DOES.
