WOW! Great steps! Awesome! This is the foundation we all look for and your H has opened up to you!
Quote: We shared some of our feelings on D. I told him the story of my D lawyers advising me not to file because it was not what I want. He said the one he went to was also "not hung-go" about the idea. He said his old C may have hurt our process and that his new one specializes in couples work and does not advocate D, that he sees that as "pro-M". I talked about how much having a pro-M C allowed me to be optimistic in ways I would not have been otherwise seen (and also to deal with my stuff where I needed to do that).
Well, there is hope out there. D lawyers seeing that you don't want a D! I'm amazed, wish there were more D lawyers like that!
I'd say you are doing great! You're DBing your butt off and the payoff will be great!
