Is my marriage still doomed?

[MrBond]

Sent too soon.

I meant you should file if you really don't think you can last in the long run. It's possible, but you have to be strong enough to stay consistent and understanding. Alot of the crazy stuff she's saying is basically a defense mechanism. She hurts so she wants you to hurt. It's messed up, but it's the way things are.

You sound like you really rely on someone to give you love and affection and can't stand on your own independence. If not, then you should file and get someone new. Of course, that relationship won't exactly be perfect either in terms of meeting YOUR needs either.

Just saying.