Separate doing for YOU and being a DAD. You also need to “me” time..so do me a favor can you list 3 things that you want to do for strickly you and when you plan to do them.
Do you have that list of 3 things yet?
1. Saturday - I'm going to a concert for a band I loved back in highschool. My W has had a gathering with her ex-step-mom scheduled for this day for weeks, so I asked my parents to watch S overnight.
2. Tonight - I'm grabbing a very quick dinner and then I'm hopping on the motorcycle. I think I only put 3 tanks of gas in it this summer... it's time to put some miles on it. 1300cc's of rumbling exhaust should help clear my head. I plan to stop by a friend's and chill on his deck with his boss/friend. It'll be nice to chat with someone new. I haven't been out and met new people in a while.
3. uhhh
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done