You've got to be the level headed one. Right now you gave her back the power which you don't want. Tell her that it would help both of you to work on your communications by going to C. How much money does she contribute? If you have insurance through work, you'll be able to find an affordable counseler.

Try not to mix up the advice you get here with the "alpha" advice you get on the other site. Texting her that you want to "c*m" all over her probably wouldn't be best right now.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER