If your wife is not interested in ML with you, would she be opposed if you both agreed to each date other people?
NOT that I'm advocating this, but I wonder what would happen if you called her bluff in this regard. I mean, if SHE doesn't want to have sex with you, surely she doesn't expect you to sit there and remain celibate, does she?
In my own sitch, when we were briefly separated and I FINALLY agreed to my wife's supposed wish for us to each date other people . . . wow, you should see how fast she changed her mind. LIGHTING fast. But I only did that because I thought I was truly DONE -- no longer fighting for my marriage -- and only because we each agreed to it up front. That's where I happen to draw my own moral boundary.
