In MLC land, they always say believe none of what they say and 50% of what they do.....
And that the challenge is to make her love you again.
If she wants to stay married there will be a point where she will realize that she has to work on her feelings. Love is always romanticized in movies, etc. but truth to tell it needs to be worked on too.
If you are willing to stay and work it out, I'd say be patient and don't expect anything. Be someone that only a fool would leave. Be lovable and patient. Don't pressure her into feeling something for you. You have to accept that the affair would not have happened if she were still "in love" with you but thats not all there is to a marraige.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
