Realistic Optimist Hard At Work

[Just A Guy]

In the ILYB book he recommends "healthy arguing" as the most istfective way of bringing lost passion back to the surface. This is a direct contradiction to what DR talks about and the 37 rules.

Should I test the waters with a healthy argument?
Should I bring up any of the things I have been learning about in the book at our MC session today?

I feel so confused by the fact that I see a clear and direct path to reconciling now and yet feel like I can't share it with my W.p