I totally agree that going through this has made me so much more self aware and stronger emotionally.
I'd like to think I'd be able to just simply say, "my marriage didn't work out, but we are still friends".
I think that's a big thing for me, just letting go of all that hurt I was carrying around with me.
I know what happened, my W knows what happened, if people asked me I'd tell them but it's not important enough for me to hang on to that image.
I hope my W does go to IC to at least start looking inwards to move forward from this.
On a lighter note, I think I'll have to join a gym because our winters here are rubbish for doing anything outdoors and I want to keep building up my mileage for next year and that half marathon I want to run.
How are you getting on CB? Still training hard for the next race?
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13