Sorry Starsky, I just had to laugh. I'm pretty sure she knows that she decided to have an affair and she also knows that I know, so IMO to reiterate it here has only one purpose, to make her feel guilty for it and rub her face in it.
I'm not saying I don't feel like doing that every so often but I'm glad that I learned to control my behaviour on this stuff. It just doesn't fit with the way I want to handle things right now.
But I totally agree with BGPs. She's got to face the music and it's better if I let her handle things by herself.
Thanks Starsky
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then