Hi Wonder,

I know you don't know me, but I've been following your sitch a bit....mine is similiar, I think. My H is moving out the end of the month, after 8-9 months home in limbo. Anyway, one quesion...and Pattie kind of hit on it, too....Is the depression info you found. My H has all the same symtoms...UGH...but does not think he is depressed at all. Big ego in that arena. He doen't see a c either....I do. He is stuck. Do I just sit back, continue DBing, filling my life (and I am..) and let him figure this out. I know I really can't say anything about depression to him. It seems so sad that he is willing to give up on the family unit and ME, and not get any help. Maybe pick up the Psychology Today and have it laying around? Just wondering if you had any thoughts on this?

Mooka