I didn't really think you were being snide, and that is why I put the ; ) behind it.
When I say something that could potentially be taken the wrong way? I put a : ) to soften it.
And I wasn't suggestioning hijacking Tad's thread but to create you own.
When a person first comes here all they want is the 'good' stuff. They don't want to hear about the people who are doing amazingly awesome but not married. And it gets sort of depressing not seeing that all over the place...
I just ask you give it your best shot at being married and growing.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK