Accepting reality, moving on with my life

[breakdownbill]

I think that's been the biggest change for me, finally realising that it is actually over between the two of us. I totally get why our M broke down and I more than played my part in it all. I grieved for a long time while trying to save this M and really hated what my W did to me with the OM, but I understand why she did now & that makes it easier for me rationalise this past year.

I'm not feeling bitter and I do still really care for my W and just want her to be happy now. We are a good team when we put our minds and focus together & I really think that our children will feel the benefit of us splitting on good terms & remaining friends.

I will make sure that the communication is good between my wife and I through all of this so that the paperwork is consistent with what we agree on & things stay peaceful.

This makes life easier for everyone, especially the children.

Thanks for being supportive and understanding Cutter, you are a good friend & your advice has helped me get through some tough times.

Soon enough I'll get through the other side of this & will really start to build a new career and a new life, opportunity is out there just waiting for me.

I really am in the best place (emotionally) that I have been in since I started this.

Bill