These are tough questions. I'm really questioning if I want to R with her because I'm starting to believe that she will never be the loving person she once was
FTR, it is very hard to DB a marraige if you are not sure if you really want to be in it. Personally, I think you need to figure that out first.
A slave cannot serve two masters. You either want to save it or you don't. Your call.
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because in the past I showed her I went back to old behaviors
So what are doing to make sure that you do not go back to those old behaviors?
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My answer then was yes but she has to make changes to and things can't go back to how they were.
This didn't break overnight and it is not gonna get fixed overnight. It take CONSISTENT actions OVER A LONG period of time.
Personally, I think you can do it...but that's just me..and hey what do I know..I'm just some typing on my machine.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
