Gee, Starsky, what a smooth talker you are. I love it mate.

The only thing is that it's too much like I used to be. Everything I used to say was loaded, and meant to hit a target. It was usually meant to guilt her and manipulate her in doing what I wanted her to do. I've been monitoring myself to avoid this behaviour and so far, I'm doing well.

This was one of the biggest points in her decision to leave so I can't go there. Heck, I don't want to go there again. Nonetheless, I hear what you say and yes, I can listen and validate without bailing her out.

CB, I hear you as well mate.

Thanks guys,

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then