Lost and looking for help

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Thanks Another, MC is solution-based pro marriage. She has been instrumental in our process. Especially with W and I's communication.

Thanks Cadet, I am proceeding with caution. I agree with your comments and I'm sure my W would as well.

We went to MC last week and discussed all recent events. W commented how impressed shes been by me through our sitch. By the end of the session MC said she thinks we're pretty much done. She commented on how far we've come in such a short span of time and that we should be proud of ourselves for getting here. So we left it open to contact her if we need to come back in.

Its only been a couple weeks since our 'turning point', but W has remained consistent in her actions. Shes always asking me if theres anything she could be doing etc. Shes been talking a lot about future plans and shes been discussing a lot about past memories. She hadn't done this for a while and she was guilty during this sitch of re-writing history, so to hear talk like this has been nice. It really seems her perspective has changed, again, time will tell.

I certainly feel stronger for having gone through this. I admittedly haven't had much adversity in my life and it very well may have made me a better person for it, and in turn a better M.

I'll try to do some journaling this weekend.

Thanks