Great post Mr. Mach...or should I say "MAC DADDY"..LOL...ROTFLMAO.
Tad, I wanted to check in on and you to see if you posted a response to the 10 questions.
I hope you are having a good weekend dude.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Thanks everyone. I had a decent weekend. Just spent it at home with the boys and watched my Cardinals lose.
Eric, ten things I am grateful for or ten things that make me happy? Not coming up with much my friend.
Update:
Saturday I checked the mail. I had 6 pieces of mail in my mailbox. 5 of them were for XW. It seems like that has been happening a lot lately. She gets more mail here lately than I do. Weird thing is, it isn't even her old address. I have moved....
Sunday when I was getting ready to watch football, S17 gets a phone call from XW. Turns out, XW was parked in my driveway and wanted to know if the boys wanted to go to lunch. S17 and S20 went. That is fine, but WTF? I'm sure she wouldn't like it if I showed up to her place unannounced....
S17 said she asked a lot of questions and wanted to know where I was. Whatever.
That is all for now I guess. Thanks for all of the input. Not avoiding questions Eric. I just haven't come up with much.
Note to Antonia, I started writing a book about a year before XW went nuts. Believe it or not, it is about a man that loses everything in a divorce. I have started working on it again and it is almost finished. It's a little weird, but I would like to get it published. Can you point me in the right direction? I don't have much money.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
Tad, I'm glad to see that you are back to writing. I do hope that you are able to get the book published.
When I was receiving mail for my xh, I would write his new address on it and stick it back in the box. Eventually he did a change of address.
Tad, she's not thinking about how you feel when she pulls into your driveway. Just let it go...her brain is mush.
I'm glad you spent time at home with your sons. Sorry about the Cardinals.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Eric, ten things I am grateful for or ten things that make me happy?
My answer....
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I mean really…can you write down 10 things that make you happy.
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coming up with much my friend.
Try harder!
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Not avoiding questions Eric.
I didn't see you answer Mach's either....
As for the mail, I still get junk mailed addressed to my xw and I too moved. I throw it in the mail.
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Tad, she's not thinking about how you feel when she pulls into your driveway.
SHe is probably not Tad but it doesn't mean you can't think about her ...just that you also need to think about TAD.
Oh..one last thing...
Answers please.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
LOL. Hey Tad, my ex still gets more mail at my house than I do. Know what? It's mostly junk and I stopped forwarding, telling her, etc years ago. I just throw it away if it's obvious junk mail. She's been gone a long time and has had ample time to change the address.
Tad, glad to hear you are writing again.
How about writing those ten things?
I wonder Tad. When you write do you get into the character a lot? Curious..
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
Hey Tad, regarding the ex's mail, when a letter arrivied here, the last one of hers in fact to come here from her bank the Halifax bank 2006. Delboy opened it cause I thought it would be interesting and it was. It was a returned rubber cheque(check)Ł79.00 from her fiance. I tried my best and put it in another envelope and got it stamped like from the bank. But perhaps she knew that I had seen it, so after her being away from our house for more than 2 1/2 years she finally changed her address.
Tad, Sorry for the hi-jack...Just a quick shout out to Delboy! How are you and your family doing?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
