Hey Tad, regarding the ex's mail, when a letter arrivied here, the last one of hers in fact to come here from her bank the Halifax bank 2006. Delboy opened it cause I thought it would be interesting and it was. It was a returned rubber cheque(check)£79.00 from her fiance. I tried my best and put it in another envelope and got it stamped like from the bank. But perhaps she knew that I had seen it, so after her being away from our house for more than 2 1/2 years she finally changed her address.