Yes, it's difficult when they live in the house, but you'll need to view her as a roommate for now.
I would go to the wedding. She can't control the world. Is there a reason that you need to text her about your attendance? If not, I would inform the bride/groom of your attendance and just show up.
She told me if I show up she would have Rex and here dad take me out of the church.
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
