Sunny, again, the best thing to do is leave her alone and only have contact w/her regarding finances and your son. If it's not an emergency, don't contact her. If she contacts you, let the phone ring once in awhile and call her back later. She needs to "experience" the consequences of her actions. You do not want to be readily available to her all of the time. Keep the focus on you and your son.
Thanks Snodderly - the thing is we still live together -- so it's not that easy
Also I am a little peaved about the wedding sitch - I purchased a ticket and rent a car - and now what the hell am I gonna do --- I think I should just text her that I will be coming to the wedding - because she shouldn't be using this against me cuz she is mad about something else.
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
