Thanks everyone - I will endeavor to write in paragraphs from now on too!
A few questions: I picked up some things from the post office for my H today and sent him a simple message just saying I wanted to let him know there were a couple of parcels for him (didn't expect a reply I don't think as he hasn't been doing).
I did get one back saying thanks and that he hopes I am well and that he is going to drop around in Friday to collect them and to go through the lawyers paper work for the financial separation . I replied no worries, but cant do Friday as I am out but maybe next week...' didn't want to sound to available and I am planning to go out!
Question is: when he does come over, do I or do I not wear my wedding rings? Should I take down our wedding photo's in our home to show him I am detaching? Also, do I offer him dinner when him comes over?
Thanks for your advice!
I am planning to get myself a copy of the Happiness Trap - sounds like it would be helpful for me! Take care everyone, hoping you are all having a positive day!
. I replied no worries, but cant do Friday as I am out but maybe next week...' didn't want to sound to available and I am planning to go out! 
