GALbaby, that is a tough sitch as well and you have a point about letting them sort it out. I mean there's just so much you can do and absolutely can not control others actions.
Update on my sitch, It was a total misunderstanding. I spoke with my sister and she assured me she was not being cold to W, but there was some events that W might've thought she was being snappy. I also spoke to my W and assure her that my sister has no intentions of getting in the middle of our problems.
See the thing is that I told my family when the "OM" incident happened last month. Although my family was disappointed they were supportive and was really rooting for my W and I to patch things up.
Overall, the sitch is a lot calmer now, my sister spoke with W and they had their talk themselves. I'm not going to touch this issue anymore, i think I've done what i could the rest is up to them to patch things up. My sister and W really got along well in the past, now I just come to terms that it will also take time for them to get over this.
W is also not mad at me anymore she just told me not to say anymore about our sitch to my sister. I told her I haven't mentioned any of this to anyone since last month (thinking to myself, thanks to DB).
Wow today felt like I just wanted to move out of town and just start my life all over again. Don't you guys feel sometime with all these things happening, you just want to get a fresh start. O well life is tough what can you do...
On another note, I had a dream last night and it felt so real that my W and I finally reconciled. Then I woke up, and still believed the reconciliation and it took me about 10 mins to get back to reality and thought o man that was just a dream.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
