Actually, I just re-read this last post and I don't like the way I sound. It's just that before writing it, I'd accidentally come across texts send by OM on D8's phone (on loan from W), and although they were about nothing (really!!) and sent about 2 weeks ago, I let myself be affected by them.
I do intend to help W but only through moral support for the time being. If she can't assume her financial responsibilities and it doesn't affect D8, I don't intend to help her unless it's life threatening however, if it's to do with payments for D8's school or insurance (which W said she'd assume) I would probably do it in the form of a loan.
I actually feel bad about it but I'm kind of glad that she is coming to this realization and that her life is not all rosy right now. I hope that it serves as an eye opener. Not that I want her to come back for financial reasons but an eye opener that some of her decisions might not have been well thought out.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
