I'm wondering if anyone can comment on depression and the WAS. My H does seem to be depressed, but doesn't it seem more natural that the LBS would be depressed? I know depression is a sign of MLC but I don't think he's MLC.

I am not depressed. Even though depression runs in my family I don't seem to have it. I wish I were more depressed because I could stand to lose a few pounds ;-)

Maybe he feels depressed because he's "stuck" - as in L told him not to make any moves and of course reconciling with me isn't an option. Thank you L for buying me some time!


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

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