My H also has a habit of announcing a lifestyle change and then not following through. Example: diet. "I'm cutting out carbs and sugar." Buys a bunch of dried beef to eat (which is actually pretty tasty). Today's intake (from what I can tell) consisted of tortilla chips and chocolate bars, plus some of that dried beef I am sure. Then wonders why he's feeling bad by evening.

These men.... I am not sure why God made them so frustrating. I'm sure they think the same about us.

Wendy, you do sound super frustrated with your H. I understand the feeling, have been there myself. Can I ask you what your goals are for the M? He has gone pretty far astray it sounds like. How do you envision righting the ship?


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page