I do have a question that I would like answered. I know that the book addresses this a little, but I need more specific. Why am I considered selfish by her for wanting to save the marriage?
Because your wife currently wants something different than you want , which is so oxymoronic because she has not examined her own motives.
Isn't she too then to be considered selfish for what She wants now versus your desires?
My wife wrote that exact same sentiment to me.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012
